Shenandoah ChefaloMay 24, 20223 minCoping Mechanisms: Shame & Guilt as a Survival SkillsWhen we experience a traumatic event, shame and guilt are common survival skills we rely on. Like the flight, fight, freeze and appease...
Shenandoah ChefaloMar 6, 20183 minFoster Care: There is No One SolutionSorry I’ve been silent. I’ve been brooding, angry over the system, policies and government. I find it is best that I don’t write when I’m...
Shenandoah ChefaloDec 2, 20174 minFoster Care & The Holidays: A Mixed Bag of EmotionsLast year at this time, I received a private Facebook message from an individual who was struggling. She was a professional who was...
Shenandoah ChefaloOct 1, 20174 minBurning Coals of Emotional Abuse: Minimizing, Invalidating & Gas LightingSince the release of Garbage Bag Suitcase, I have had some interesting human encounters. I have traveled around the country and even into...